Your hope and pain run together.

I wish you and your family such beautiful things and I hope the joy you could experience furthermore would balance out the pain and sorrow evident in your lives so far.

Cheers.

Ralette.

Your hope and pain run together.

Our first born was crying almost non-stop for 13 months. He got the worst from both sides of our families: digestive disorders and sensitive liver from mine and not able to assimilate minerals and vitamins to a huge extent from my husband’s side. That meant: he could not make muscles.

After 13 months (and I thought he would not see his first birthday the extent to which he screamed with pain daily) with doctors not knowing what to do and not investigating the matter other than telling me to give him indigestion medicine and painkillers and fever breakers, I had some food intolerance tests done privately. I adjusted our diets in line with these findings. I realised all food could be either good or bad for one, no matter HOW organic or HOW healthy according to the media, because it depends on what sense your actual body makes of what you put in it.

The food intolerance specialist gave me the name of a homoeopathic doctor who realised it was an assimilation problem. At 13 months he could not crawl nor carry his own body-weight and would scream with pain and frustration, because his mind was in good shape, but the body was unwilling. He stopped making sounds after his 3 sets of innoculations at 3, 4, and 5 months. This made things considerably worse.

From when he was 13 months we have had one person after another put on our paths to help step by step as if angels took charge indeed: kinesiology, chiropractic, continued homoeopathy, healing of various kinds.

Now our son is 9 and though some motor-skills will always be impaired to some extent, he leads a fulfilling life. He walks and runs, though one could detect he is different physically if you looked for it, like a personal trainer would be able to tell when he runs that he struggles somewhat.

He is skinny and smaller for his age, but he has an iron-will.

He happens to be clairvoyant too, which makes him even more different (brings yet more challenges) but helps him to protect himself in life as he learns how to utilise it.

I wish you and your family such beautiful things and I hope the joy you could experience furthermore would balance out the pain and sorrow evident in your lives so far.

Cheers.

Ralette.