Comments on: Honesty http://www.sixredheads.com/2007/11/10/honesty/ Conscious Living....Deliberate Living. Deciding what I want to strive for and then setting goals to get there... "But the dreamers of the day are dangerous people because they think their dreams into reality with eyes wide open." Fri, 30 Jul 2010 05:27:48 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: David http://www.sixredheads.com/2007/11/10/honesty/comment-page-1/#comment-22158 David Wed, 14 Nov 2007 12:34:47 +0000 http://www.sixredheads.com/2007/11/10/honesty/#comment-22158 Comment removed by site owner due to it's nature. Comment removed by site owner due to it’s nature.

]]> By: Just me http://www.sixredheads.com/2007/11/10/honesty/comment-page-1/#comment-22150 Just me Tue, 13 Nov 2007 19:01:57 +0000 http://www.sixredheads.com/2007/11/10/honesty/#comment-22150 I'm a lurker. Have been. I have nothing intelligent to say for you, but I want you to know that what you said has been intelligent for ME. I am struggling with my own authenticity... with 22 years of infidelity and sorrow and 'settling'. Mostly because I'm afraid to say those words: we're getting a divorce. I hope that I can find the courage in your life to live mine. AUTHENTIC. That is indeed what I desire for both of us. I wish you well. I’m a lurker. Have been.
I have nothing intelligent to say for you, but I want you to know that what you said has been intelligent for ME.

I am struggling with my own authenticity… with 22 years of infidelity and sorrow and ’settling’. Mostly because I’m afraid to say those words: we’re getting a divorce.

I hope that I can find the courage in your life to live mine.

AUTHENTIC. That is indeed what I desire for both of us.

I wish you well.

]]> By: Ampersand http://www.sixredheads.com/2007/11/10/honesty/comment-page-1/#comment-22145 Ampersand Tue, 13 Nov 2007 03:57:32 +0000 http://www.sixredheads.com/2007/11/10/honesty/#comment-22145 "Looking inside, trying to take thing by thing, in order to become as authentic as possible, has a way of strengthening a person to see what they tried to ignore." Tis true. I wish for all your family health and wholeness of being. “Looking inside, trying to take thing by thing, in order to become as authentic as possible, has a way of strengthening a person to see what they tried to ignore.”

Tis true.

I wish for all your family health and wholeness of being.

]]> By: Mark http://www.sixredheads.com/2007/11/10/honesty/comment-page-1/#comment-22144 Mark Tue, 13 Nov 2007 00:13:28 +0000 http://www.sixredheads.com/2007/11/10/honesty/#comment-22144 Tia: I've commented occasionally on you delightful blog, and wanted to leave a few words now. So sorry to hear about your family problems. Know that you are not alone in this and that many of us have been where you are. Take a deep breath and be grateful for your courage. It isn't easy to do what you are doing. Too many people live long lives of desperate unhappiness. Sady. You've got some tough times ahead. Dark days filled with self doubt. It's only normal. Hang tough and know that you and your family will get through this. Focus on the kids, focus on the future, focus on the good things this change brings. It will, I am sure, be tough for the kids for now. They will adjust. And after a bit, they will understand that it is better to have two happy parents who live apart than two unhappy parents who live together. Peace and love. Mark Tia:

I’ve commented occasionally on you delightful blog, and wanted to leave a few words now. So sorry to hear about your family problems. Know that you are not alone in this and that many of us have been where you are. Take a deep breath and be grateful for your courage. It isn’t easy to do what you are doing. Too many people live long lives of desperate unhappiness. Sady. You’ve got some tough times ahead. Dark days filled with self doubt. It’s only normal. Hang tough and know that you and your family will get through this. Focus on the kids, focus on the future, focus on the good things this change brings. It will, I am sure, be tough for the kids for now. They will adjust. And after a bit, they will understand that it is better to have two happy parents who live apart than two unhappy parents who live together.

Peace and love.

Mark

]]> By: Pea http://www.sixredheads.com/2007/11/10/honesty/comment-page-1/#comment-22143 Pea Mon, 12 Nov 2007 23:05:54 +0000 http://www.sixredheads.com/2007/11/10/honesty/#comment-22143 Oh Tia, I'm sorry. God bless you and yours. Oh Tia, I’m sorry. God bless you and yours.

]]> By: Cheap Like Me http://www.sixredheads.com/2007/11/10/honesty/comment-page-1/#comment-22141 Cheap Like Me Mon, 12 Nov 2007 18:30:51 +0000 http://www.sixredheads.com/2007/11/10/honesty/#comment-22141 Best wishes and care to you and your family. Best wishes and care to you and your family.

]]> By: mumsgather http://www.sixredheads.com/2007/11/10/honesty/comment-page-1/#comment-22139 mumsgather Mon, 12 Nov 2007 05:33:55 +0000 http://www.sixredheads.com/2007/11/10/honesty/#comment-22139 I don't normally comment but I've got to say something. I'm sorry you have to go through this but somehow I have a feeling that not only will you survive it but you will grow and become better for having to go through this. Take care. I don’t normally comment but I’ve got to say something. I’m sorry you have to go through this but somehow I have a feeling that not only will you survive it but you will grow and become better for having to go through this. Take care.

]]> By: Michael http://www.sixredheads.com/2007/11/10/honesty/comment-page-1/#comment-22138 Michael Mon, 12 Nov 2007 04:54:06 +0000 http://www.sixredheads.com/2007/11/10/honesty/#comment-22138 We've been a part of each other's lives over the past seventeen years with varying degrees of involvement. I sat across from you at a restaurant five years ago and expected your involvement in mine to lessen, if not end. All I knew going in was honesty. And it's all I know now. I owe it to myself and to everyone in my life. Your courage and strength overwhelms me. Your ambition and drive inspires me. You are indeed a rock star, and you will continue to shine. Beers are on me...soon. We’ve been a part of each other’s lives over the past seventeen years with varying degrees of involvement. I sat across from you at a restaurant five years ago and expected your involvement in mine to lessen, if not end.
All I knew going in was honesty. And it’s all I know now. I owe it to myself and to everyone in my life.
Your courage and strength overwhelms me. Your ambition and drive inspires me. You are indeed a rock star, and you will continue to shine.
Beers are on me…soon.

]]> By: Kyra http://www.sixredheads.com/2007/11/10/honesty/comment-page-1/#comment-22137 Kyra Mon, 12 Nov 2007 02:08:53 +0000 http://www.sixredheads.com/2007/11/10/honesty/#comment-22137 Sometimes life interferes with...well....life. Would that fairy tales were all that simple You know that I know. Sometimes life interferes with…well….life.
Would that fairy tales were all that simple

You know that I know.

]]> By: Julie Bogart http://www.sixredheads.com/2007/11/10/honesty/comment-page-1/#comment-22136 Julie Bogart Mon, 12 Nov 2007 01:38:33 +0000 http://www.sixredheads.com/2007/11/10/honesty/#comment-22136 Hope your trip to TN went well. Jon told me you'd posted this entry and I've been gone so missed it until now. Just wanted you to know that I'm thinking about you every day. Love, Julie Hope your trip to TN went well. Jon told me you’d posted this entry and I’ve been gone so missed it until now. Just wanted you to know that I’m thinking about you every day.

Love,
Julie

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