Resolution Strategies: Be a better parent & Resolution Strategies: Eating Better & Resolution Strategies: Live a Greener Life & Resolution Strategies: Live on a Budget & Resolution Strategies: Simplify 24 May 2008 07:00 am

Living Deliberately: Time for a Resolution Strategy Check-In (and win a free bag!)

Here it is, just about the end of May!! I’m actually overdue for this check-in; had been hoping to get to it earlier in the month but it’s been a busy one and hey…I’m human! :-).

So here was my original list for 2008:

(obviously not a complete list):

  • continue to learn and train as necessary for my first sprint-level Triathlon; I want to do my first in the spring of ‘09 so the bulk of my learning and prep should be within this year.
  • obtain and learn to play the guitar (leftover goal from last year, completely untouched).
  • read fiction again this summer.
  • paint again.
  • hit my buisiness goal.
  • transition my children healthfully, teaching them to live honestly, loving them patiently.
  • continue, and to some extent return to, eating whole, traditonal foods prepared at home, wherever home comes to be.

And here was my last update, in February. Because I had made such good progress on my goals in the first month, I also added to my goal list at that time:

  • work on “greening” things up a bit more….compost the food scraps, contribute to the garden, be more diligent with power consumption (turn off this ‘puter at night!), use a reusable water bottle instead of buying them…etc.
  • get my budget written. I am now “variable income” and Dave has sheets for that. It’s time to get very, very intentional with money, more than I ever have done so before; there’s no excuse not to because I certainly know better!
  • kayak…another long time wish that I’ve done nothing to attain. Saying it in writing is a start.

And here is my mid-year check-in:

  • I’ll actually update on my Triathlon Training progress in a separate post but a quick synopsis would be that I’m now doing the run/bike combination a few times each week, with a 5 mile run/walk and a 9.5 mile ride. Biggest need is still for equipment; everything from a cap, shorts, & shoes to a real racing bike, and next to add in for the work out is a swim. Perfect timing with summer here.
  • My guitar: oh how I love thee! I’m still strumming by moonlight in my little camper and working on a little finger picking. It probably sounds moody and cliche and that’s just what I love! It’s like the gooey frosting on a cupcake…Sweet On Purpose. And a totally selfish joy, of which I’ll not waste a moment feeling guilty over. My guitar, even played in ways others’ would chuckle at, makes me happy.
  • Fiction: I didn’t wait for summer. And, now that summer is here, I’m currently reading through more NON fiction: Dark Nights of the Soul (which is awesome btw) and some fiction: The Whistling Season (which I find to be slow). As it gets hotter, I may ditch reading all together though and go with movies. I have some catching up to do on my never-ending lists!
  • Painting: slow but constant. Sunday afternoons are the days that I paint, when I have one that allows for it. I’ve finished two paintings and have begun a third. It’s a good pace that I’m pleased with and the experiments I’m doing with oil and texturizing my canvas are much fun!
  • My business goals: cooking right along. I’m hoping for a very good second half of the year and with articulated goals and a schedule for hitting them, seem to be right on track. I’m launching my new website within days.
  • My children: oh joy are they doing so much better! Winter has passed in more ways than one. New friends, new sports and activities, new adventures, combined with the restoration of old comforts and traditions, has helped and I thank all of you who pray for them. The road ahead is still a long one and that’s all I can say about that.
  • Food: a miraculous thing happened yesterday….I worked a long day and took my tired and sweaty self into the kitchen, cleaned up a bit, and made supper. A creative supper. Without thinking about it too much! It just rolled out, like the old days. I’ve cooked good food in the past few months but I was distressed over how much EFFORT it took to think it through, come up with an idea, and experiment. Last night felt restorative. I twittered it. I think, especially as I’ll soon have my own kitchen again, I will see this return in gradual force.
  • on greener: BAD progress. Actually stagnant. I guess it’s good that we’re still using real air…no AC yet. Mom makes tremendous strides (and blogs them here) and I go along with her efforts. But if they weren’t there, I probably wouldn’t be initiating them right now and I still want to change that. Takes energy I haven’t had yet; maybe in the next quarter?
  • Budget’s written. ER fund is being worked on (Baby Step 1) with slow, sometimes backwards, motion. Business + a settled divorce should = progress in the next quarter. If I did one TMM, I can do another! The determination is there and that is always the very start.
  • Kayak: zero progress. But I have a birthday coming up and I’m kind of eyeballing that company on the waterway that does tours. We’ll see.

Okay…so now it’s YOUR turn! Blog your own goal progress and leave me a link in the comments. Also, link to this post in your own post. I’ll take the names off all who participate and randomly draw one to receive a FREE UseAgainBag…a reusable grocery bag, completely made in America (fabric included), with super-strong handles, hooks for the baggers, and a deep capacity. This ain’t the cheapies they sell for a few bucks that look like they could fall apart in a few trips….made in China, of course! I promise you’ll love your bag!

5 Responses to “Living Deliberately: Time for a Resolution Strategy Check-In (and win a free bag!)”

  1. on 24 May 2008 at 10:19 pm 1.dalimama said …

    Kayak!
    Quick word of advice… we bought our ocean kayak which seats two at Costco for $250 which is an incredibly good price. I priced these on the internet and irl and could find nothing less than $700. So, if you decide you want to own a kayak… I highly recommend perusing Costco regularly since their inventory changes regularly. Last time I was there, I saw they were selling the more traditional kind of kayak.

    Glad you are meeting your other goals so well and seem to be in a much better place than you were only months ago.

    much love to you.

  2. on 25 May 2008 at 9:07 am 2.Wiwi W said …

    Nice Blog!

    I posted your story on my blog. I also still learn to write better.

    Nice to see your blog.
    Wiwi W

  3. on 26 May 2008 at 5:16 am 3.Beth said …

    I haven’t been as deliberate as you in writing goals and sticking to them. But I’m having to readjust nevertheless.
    - I went back to school, which was a a goal of mine. I did really well, and was bumped up to honors. I loved being a student, having the deadline of assignments….the whole thing. I should have chosen an academic career! :-)
    - I kept up with my Project 365 blog until I didn’t have a camera anymore! I kinda miss it sometimes, so if I can get another camera I might take it back up.
    - Because the economy isn’t being kind to our house, I’m having to adjust to a 1/3 paycut in our household budget. And I’m probably going to have to forget school and get a job. So my goals now are about getting my resume burnished, getting an interview wardrobe, and networking. I have an interview on Tuesday morning…we’ll see. The whole idea of pulling in a paycheck is foreign to me….I’ve been a stay at home mom for 22 years. I guess the gig is up. :-)
    - Bill and I have talked recently about the idea of liquidating and starting over. Moving to another area of the country, and deliberately choosing a new life. We’re thinking once the kids were out of the house (3 more years) we might want to move out west and he might want to try a different career/lifestyle… more nature, less suburbs; more green, lower standard of living, etc.. Right now these are just thoughts, but in the coming months I’m hoping to research how to make this option a realistic possibility.
    - Not making much progress on losing weight/fitness.

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  5. on 30 Jul 2008 at 1:19 pm 5.anita said …

    My son used to do triathlons. It didn’t matter what kind of swim stroke you used, as long as you could get from start to finish! Just be careful at the start, as those not out in front tend to kick the others behind them in the face. Not fun! Look on ebay or craig’s list for gear, you can get it much cheaper there. My son just sold his training and racing bikes for a fraction of what they cost new. Good luck to you! I enjoy following your story!

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