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	<title>Comments on: Diet Advice From the Real Experts: Anorexics.</title>
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	<description>Conscious Living....Deliberate Living. Deciding what I want to strive for and then setting goals to get there... "But the dreamers of the day are dangerous people because they think their dreams into reality with eyes wide open."</description>
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		<title>By: queenofthehill</title>
		<link>http://www.sixredheads.com/2008/07/18/diet-advice-from-the-real-experts-anorexics/#comment-27095</link>
		<dc:creator>queenofthehill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Aug 2008 19:31:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I meant to say that my uncle still attends AA meetings almost daily -- but hasn't had a drink in 25 years.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I meant to say that my uncle still attends AA meetings almost daily &#8212; but hasn&#8217;t had a drink in 25 years.</p>
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		<title>By: queenofthehill</title>
		<link>http://www.sixredheads.com/2008/07/18/diet-advice-from-the-real-experts-anorexics/#comment-27094</link>
		<dc:creator>queenofthehill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Aug 2008 19:30:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Tia, 

I wanted to point out that because alcoholism is considered a disease of addiction, many people who would typically be present at AA meetings are not currently indulging in drinking - aka:  "dry people". Typically, everyone in a meeting is sober, just for varying periods of time. My uncle, for example, has been dry for 25 years, but since part of the program is to "give back" (they have words for that, but I can't think what they are), in order to keep the giver in line.  Even alcoholics who don't drink continue to work the program in this way, always identifying themselves as alcoholics but merely with number of hours/days/years in sobriety.  So they have addressed many of the challenges the newbies would encounter and are apparently quite helpful.  My uncle is what they call a "sponsor" to those trying to clean up.  So I suspect that AA is a great route for people to go when ready to put down the bottle.  Naturally, only the alcoholic can put down the bottle, just as only the overweight person can push back from the table.  Noone can wave a magic wand.  But nothing is more helpful than someone who has been there and can easily recognize the error in your "stinking thinking" and quickly identify your excuses that stand in your way.  

In short (I'm not so good at "short" am I?), AA is a very successful program that has helped millions of people and I'm confident it saved my uncle's life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Tia, </p>
<p>I wanted to point out that because alcoholism is considered a disease of addiction, many people who would typically be present at AA meetings are not currently indulging in drinking - aka:  &#8220;dry people&#8221;. Typically, everyone in a meeting is sober, just for varying periods of time. My uncle, for example, has been dry for 25 years, but since part of the program is to &#8220;give back&#8221; (they have words for that, but I can&#8217;t think what they are), in order to keep the giver in line.  Even alcoholics who don&#8217;t drink continue to work the program in this way, always identifying themselves as alcoholics but merely with number of hours/days/years in sobriety.  So they have addressed many of the challenges the newbies would encounter and are apparently quite helpful.  My uncle is what they call a &#8220;sponsor&#8221; to those trying to clean up.  So I suspect that AA is a great route for people to go when ready to put down the bottle.  Naturally, only the alcoholic can put down the bottle, just as only the overweight person can push back from the table.  Noone can wave a magic wand.  But nothing is more helpful than someone who has been there and can easily recognize the error in your &#8220;stinking thinking&#8221; and quickly identify your excuses that stand in your way.  </p>
<p>In short (I&#8217;m not so good at &#8220;short&#8221; am I?), AA is a very successful program that has helped millions of people and I&#8217;m confident it saved my uncle&#8217;s life.</p>
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		<title>By: Cynthia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cynthia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Jul 2008 21:55:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I enjoy your blog and suspect that the intention behind this post was to be funny.  However, as someone who has watched family members struggle with anorexia, to the point of needing hospitalization at age 13, I had a hard time appreciating the humor. The tips you provided are certainly very sensible, and the behavior described in high school and after is very common, and while not exactly healthy, it is far from what many people experience. Anorexia is very serious disease that people can spend a lifetime fighting, and in today's world where young girls are constantly exposed unrealistic expectations of the perfect body, caution should be exercised when making light of eating disorders.  I appreciate that the intention of this post was not encourage people to take up an eating disorder, and rather to encourage healty habits, but felt compelled to share another perspective.  Thanks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I enjoy your blog and suspect that the intention behind this post was to be funny.  However, as someone who has watched family members struggle with anorexia, to the point of needing hospitalization at age 13, I had a hard time appreciating the humor. The tips you provided are certainly very sensible, and the behavior described in high school and after is very common, and while not exactly healthy, it is far from what many people experience. Anorexia is very serious disease that people can spend a lifetime fighting, and in today&#8217;s world where young girls are constantly exposed unrealistic expectations of the perfect body, caution should be exercised when making light of eating disorders.  I appreciate that the intention of this post was not encourage people to take up an eating disorder, and rather to encourage healty habits, but felt compelled to share another perspective.  Thanks.</p>
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		<title>By: SmallWorld</title>
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		<dc:creator>SmallWorld</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jul 2008 21:27:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Funny. I read a friend's blog in which she was asking for help losing weight and said, "Don't give me advice if you are a skinny person." Not long after I had a discussion with some other (mutual) friends who were very surprised to know that skinny people actually, for the most part, WORK at being skinny. I explained that it is a constant thing. We exercise; we are constantly mindful of everything we eat. And this is my most helpful thing: I explained that every single time I eat something questionable, I say, "Would a skinny person eat that?" Or "Would skinny me have eaten that?" ("Skinny me" being me pre-kids.) Anyway, I still do that. Sometimes I ignore skinny me, but skinny me keeps me in line. For the most part. Oh, and I don't think of myself as a skinny person anymore, but I do recognize that I am not overweight!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Funny. I read a friend&#8217;s blog in which she was asking for help losing weight and said, &#8220;Don&#8217;t give me advice if you are a skinny person.&#8221; Not long after I had a discussion with some other (mutual) friends who were very surprised to know that skinny people actually, for the most part, WORK at being skinny. I explained that it is a constant thing. We exercise; we are constantly mindful of everything we eat. And this is my most helpful thing: I explained that every single time I eat something questionable, I say, &#8220;Would a skinny person eat that?&#8221; Or &#8220;Would skinny me have eaten that?&#8221; (&#8221;Skinny me&#8221; being me pre-kids.) Anyway, I still do that. Sometimes I ignore skinny me, but skinny me keeps me in line. For the most part. Oh, and I don&#8217;t think of myself as a skinny person anymore, but I do recognize that I am not overweight!</p>
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		<title>By: Erin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Erin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jul 2008 17:37:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I've always said that I wanted the determination of an Anorexic person.  I never wanted the disease but the determination, most definitely!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve always said that I wanted the determination of an Anorexic person.  I never wanted the disease but the determination, most definitely!</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah @ Ordinary Days</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sarah @ Ordinary Days</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jul 2008 16:07:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love how you cut the mumbo-jumbo of weight loss tricks and diets and just got straight to the truth. Great post!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love how you cut the mumbo-jumbo of weight loss tricks and diets and just got straight to the truth. Great post!</p>
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